Saturday, May 24, 2008

Anniversary No.2

Can you believe I've been married to this handsome man for 2 years now? Unfortunately we're not together for our anniversary this year, but that's somewhat symptomatic of our lives at this point in time. I do have a few things planned for when I get back to HK though... :)

Nevertheless the fact that we've made it successfully through two years of constant upheaval says something about the kind of relationship we've developed, the adventures we've had, the memories we've created and the excitement we have about the many years that lie ahead of us.

This year, now we're 733 days into things, I'd like to say that I love Andrew because he always works to keep things fun, he always brings adventure with him (with a little danger and risk if at all possible), he is always so loving and supportive (even if that means tough love at times - he has that no pain no gain mentality!), he is very generous, he likes to fit as much into his time as possible, he believes in me and in my potential and in that of everyone that he meets, he makes the best burritos :), he is intelligent AND funny, he is actually hilarious, he has a great smile and laugh, he has lovely kind brown eyes, he is completely genuine, and he is my best friend.
Happy Anniversary sweetheart!!

Thursday, May 15, 2008

Recent Travels

We are (were - sorry this is posted a little late, I was working on pictures but didn't get to finish them..) currently in Los Angeles, having just got back from a lovely weekend in Utah with friends and family. You'd be surprised how much we can fit into 3.5 days, but we managed to cover the following:

Land about midnight Friday night/Saturday morning (after an unquantifiable amount of air travel plus 6 hours of layovers), pick up Duke's car and drive to their house, let ourselves in and try not to make too much noise as we settle in for the night, while the rest of the household sleeps.

Saturday: lazy morning with the Dukes before heading out to Snowbird for some afternoon skiing. Resort to Plan B because Snowbird is only open to advanced/expert skiers (boo), so we go hiking on the Little Cottonwood Trail instead. Spend the evening catching up with some of Andrew's mission buddies including the Dukes, the Fairbanks, the Olsens, the Kearls, and Lattimer.

Sunday: wake up early to head to out for breakfast with Andrew's grandparents, followed by church, and a brief pop into a family luncheon gathering. Head to see my friends Kristy & Lisa for a delicious lunch. Even got to watch the Jazz vs Lakers game (yes we really are Sabbath day breakers), but it was a great game and so fun to see girls I have not caught up with in ages! Next stop dinner and catch up with Andrew's aunt and cousin. Spend the night with the Fairbanks.

Monday: lazy morning for Nicola with Jodie and Callie, early morning basketball for Andrew so he could catch up with Tanner. Followed by a late delicious crepe breakfast with Heidi and Oscar. So cute and fun to see them. Next up a few errands and a brief belated lunch with an all-American burger. Hiking followed in the afternoon with the Walters as we headed into their favourite hiking trail, we really liked it too, as it has some awesome views of the valley, and filled Andrew's need for a little bit of hiking danger/adventure.
An evening of fun was spent with the Kelly family, including enchiladas and Andrew's favourite apple crisp in the entire world.

Tuesday: a much needed lie-in and attending to various admin requirements, before heading into town for a quick pit stop lunch with Dorotha. Absolutely lovely, and she even treated us to a personal piano performance. Before long we were off to the airport and straight onto California where we met up with Peter for a scrumptious Italian dinner.

That brings us up to today, where I am lazily enjoying one of the most comfortable beds I've ever slept in, more good weather, a hairdryer and being near the beach - what more could a girl ask for?

Pictures and more updates to come soon...

Thursday, May 08, 2008

Knowledge IS Everything

My Mum is awesome, truly a great person to talk with about real issues. I love chatting with her, and especially now that I am out and about in the world and having my eyes opened to so many different ideas and perspectives. Our recent exchange brought about these wise words about looking for real truth as opposed to just believing what the television/movies tell us...

Knowledge is everything, if we didn’t already know that. What passes for knowledge, in the media and from governments, is mostly half-truths or total misrepresentation and lies. Travel, real communication with people, a genuine desire to learn and an open mind (plus the inspiration of the Spirit) opens our eyes to the real truth. But unfortunately for some this will never be an option or desire.
I'm hoping when I'm a little more seasoned in the world, I'll be able to pass on what I've learned to my own children and encourage a desire to seek for real truths through their own experiences.

Wednesday, May 07, 2008

Babies & Marriages

This certainly seems to be a year for babies! And as such we'd like to send our congratulations to the following mothers and their most recent deliveries...(apologies for those a few months belated!)

Noelle & baby boy (born on Tuesday!)
Shelley & Ella
Janie & Tyler
Kelly & Casen
Cherylyn & Andrew (great name by the way!)
Denise & Abigail
Lindsay & Isaac
Suzanna & Jasper (she did get a shout out in November - but hey - she's my sister, she can have two :)
Cami & Reese

More babies coming up this year that I'm excited about...
Lauren & baby girl
Tiffany & baby
Melanie & baby boy
Louise & baby girl
Erika & baby
Bethany & baby
Megan & baby
Zhao Han & baby
Jodie & twins!

A little treat for those of you out who like to merge motherhood with great design and ideas - DesignMom - plus they have great giveaways!

And let's not forget our congratulations for some upcoming weddings I can't wait to see pictures of...
Porter & Sara
Katie & Jos
Fiona & Chris
Alisha & Wes
Heidi & Gary

Hope I didn't miss anyone!!
A little something for those of you planning a wedding and in need of some inspiration - Snippet & Ink - so pretty!

(image care of this site)

Sunday, May 04, 2008

Middle East - Part 1: Jordan

Jo arrived at the end of my second day in Cairo. By then I had already been in a near accident, seen a real 3-car one, gone to Church, tried out some fabulous Egyptian food (delicious stuffed vine leaves, and the strawberry juice is really amazing), stopped in Coptic Cairo, taken the metro, eaten koshery, seen a dead body pulled from the Nile, driven through the local street markets on the way to the Sound & Light Show at the pyramids (the latter is quite something to be sure), had my very first Indian strawberry lassi, and got stuck in some terrible traffic on the way to pick up Jo at the airport.

We finally got there and found her, kindly being taken care of by some friendly local Egyptian men...who no doubt would have offered to marry her had she stayed any longer! That is if they hadn't already... :)
We made our way back to Whitney's apartment for literally a few hours of sleep before heading back to the airport to catch our 8am flight to Amman, Jordan.

Fingertip facts: Jordan, officially the Hashemite Kingdom of Jordan, is a country in the Arab World in Southwest Asia, bordered by Syria to the north, Iraq to the north-east, Israel and the West Bank to the west, and Saudi Arabia to the east and south. It shares with Israel the coastlines of the Dead Sea, and the Gulf of Aqaba with Israel, Saudi Arabia, and Egypt.The Hashemite Kingdom of Jordan is a constitutional monarchy with representative government.

Day 1 in Jordan:
Upon arrival in Jordan, we sorted out our rental car, and were soon on the road and cruising into Amman looking for an ATM and a Safeway to stock up on food and water supplies for the next few days of driving. Well that was easier said than done, because finding it was not as simple as the guy we rented the car from had made out. A few hours! and quite a few stops later, we finally found them both and were somewhat relieved to get something in our bellies. Salted cashews and water for Jo, peanut M&M's and lemonade for me (I needed the sugar).

Totally forgetting to purchase a map, we set off on our journey to find Mount Nebo. The place where Moses was given a view of the Promised Land, and also where he was apparently buried by God.
Well no wonder they were wandering in the wilderness for 40 years (they probably forgot to get a map too), because we had trouble finding it as well...though I should clarify we never actually found it...but then we didn't have 40 years so what can you expect?! We did see lots of signs for it, but nothing...maybe they should do a film about that...Finding Nebo...what do you think? :)

We did get some shots of the area, so you can get an idea of the dry, deserted, wilderness the Israelites were wandering around in, and you can also understand why they really needed that manna from heaven - because short of modern underground pipes and irrigation there's nothing out there!

The one bit of green we did find in the otherwise desert and deserted mountain range.






Next stop was the Movenpick hotel on the Dead Sea to take a dip. You can pay for a days pass to the DSea, the hotels pool and shower facilities (trust me you'll want one of those after a salty swim). Truly it is a unique experience, and those of you who have been will understand why.

For the uninitiated, Wikipedia will tell you the Dead Sea is a salt lake between Israel (and the West Bank) to the west, and Jordan to the east. It is 420 metres (1,378 ft) below sea level, and its shores are the lowest point on the surface of the Earth on dry land. The Dead Sea is 330 m (1,083 ft) deep, the deepest hypersaline lake in the world. It is also the world's second saltiest body of water, after Lake Asal in Djibouti, with 30 percent salinity. It is 8.6 times saltier than the ocean.[3] Israeli experts say that it is nine times saltier than the Mediterranean Sea (31.5% salt versus 3.5% for the Mediterranean). The Dead Sea is 67 kilometres (42 mi) long and 18 kilometres (11 mi) wide at its widest point. The Dead Sea has attracted visitors from around the Mediterranean basin for thousands of years. Biblically, it was a place of refuge for King David. It was one of the world's first health resorts (for Herod the Great), and it has been the supplier of a wide variety of products, from balms for Egyptian mummification to potash for fertilizers.

And for those chemists out there - here is a little something for you:
The mineral content of the Dead Sea is significantly different from that of ocean water. The exact composition of the Dead Sea water varies with season, depth, temperature and so on. The concentration of ionic species (in g/kg) of Dead Sea surface water in the early 1980s was found to be: Cl− (181.4), Br− (4.2), SO42− (0.4), HCO3− (0.2), Ca2+ (14.1), Na+ (32.5), K+ (6.2) and Mg2+ (35.2). The total salinity was 276 g/kg. These results show that w/w% composition of the salt, as anhydrous chlorides, was calcium chloride (CaCl2) 14.4%, potassium chloride (KCl) 4.4%, magnesium chloride (MgCl2) 50.8% and sodium chloride (common salt, NaCl) 30.4%. In comparison, the salt in the water of most oceans and seas is approximately 97% sodium chloride. The concentration of sulfate, SO42−, ions is very low, and the bromide ion, Br− concentration is the highest of all waters on Earth.

For the rest of us mere mortals - simply put, the Dead Sea is just weird. It is kind of oilyish, if you imagine you've just put oil on your body and then stepped into a pool, you can see the oil swirling around in the water (I tried to capture this in the pics), that's what it looks and feels like.
It is more viscose than water, heavier, and weirdly dryer, if that makes sense.





It makes some really cool salt patterns on the rocks that jut out of its body, and it's true, I can confirm it, you do float! And yes it is weird and takes a little getting used to.












Some random pictures from the journey along the Dead Sea heading south to Wadi Musa












Jordan in the foreground and Israel across the sea in the distance.







The drive to Wadi Musa took a little longer than expected, and despite my prayers that the sky would stay light long enough once the sun went down for us to find the camp, nighttime fell and we were left to find our way there in the dark. Which would have been fine if it had been a straightforward drive, but that was not to be. We left the Dead Sea at 5pm and the first 160kms were fine, it was when we hit the Finan junction that we started running into problems, like the fact that if the man who originally gave me the directions says 15km, I should only expect to drive 7km, and that spellings are changeable depending on the sign and location. Namala, could also be Namlah, or Namleh, or even Namla. And despite the fact that you are heading towards Petra, it probably won't be listed at all (even though it's the only major tourist attraction around besides the desert).

The next step in the directions was to take the road all the way up the mountains to Beidha/Petra...
Clearly no mention that it was a bumpy dirt road, complete with hairpin after hairpin as it makes its way up the mountains, or of the sheer(ish) drop on one side or the other and sometimes both, the complete lack of streetlights and road signs (nothing, nada, zero, zilch), the rabid-looking, vicious sheep dogs who decided to chase us, that the road lasts forever (especially in the dark going about 30-40km/h), and that we should expect it to take us an hour just to get through the mountains, before we could even hope to find the next portion of the directions... (did I miss anything Jo?)
Granted it was no Bolivian Road of Death (btw, you should definitely check that link out) but it was close. You'd hope the adventures would have stopped once we made it to camp, but it was not to be.

We eventually found the Bedouin camp we had arranged to spend the night at (for a real experience) and fortunately there were still people up at 9(ish)pm when we arrived. We were joining a group of Germans (who had already gone to bed), and three others who were still up (a French woman who lives in Amman, her daughter by her Syrian husband, and her daughter's husband/boyfriend who is half English/half French), who we chatted with a little prior to tucking into a dinner the Bedouin had made for us, followed by a few minutes chatting with the Bedouin themselves before heading to bed. We didn't chat for long because the wind had suddenly picked up and we were tired and I was feeling uncomfortable as one of the men had been staring at me the entire time...a little unsettling.

Anyway, we made up our beds in our assigned room, they give you mattresses and blankets, upon which we laid our sleeping bags. We crawled inside and waited for the lights to go out. Well, the wind got stronger and while the tent was heaving under the pressure, the sand would occasionally make it's way through the woven fabric or the slit we called a door. As I lay there all of a sudden feeling very unsafe, I thought to myself,
"This is one of the most stupid things I have ever done. What was I thinking?! Dragging myself and Jo out here, in the middle of nowhere, with a group of people we don't know. What kind of danger was I putting us both in?! This is the type of thing you do with a group or at least with a husband or brother or dad, not as two women alone!!"

Jo, wisely decided to sleep with my torch the entire night. As for me, I couldn't keep my eyes off the "door", keeping watch for any hint of a shadow or shape outside that might threaten an unwelcome entrance. Between that and unfamiliar sounds and rustlings coming from outside the tent I must have eventually fallen into a broken sleep, punctuated frequently by imagined/dreamed yells coming from Jo of, "Bag check!" (meaning to check our bags were still there), or "someone's in the tent" (when I would frantically strain my eyes, scanning the darkness to see if anyone was really there).
My vivid imagination truly needs no help (the real reason I can't watch scary movies anymore) because the worst was yet to come. I awoke to another imagined scream from Jo of "bag check" and "someone's in the tent", and desperately grasping around to see if my bag was still there (which it was), I turned to see Jo being slowly dragged out of the tent by some dark form.
I lay there, trying with all my might to reach over and grab her and hold on. I remember wondering why I couldn't move. Was it because I was still trying to wake up or because someone had drugged my food and rendered me immobile?! It was all I could do to work through the feeling of heavy numbness to exert enough effort and energy to save my friend.
Amidst my panic, I woke up, heart pounding, sand on my face, in my hair, nose and mouth, wind still whipping up a storm, to realise (very slowly) it had just been a dream/nightmare. Thank goodness!

But it didn't remove my unease, and I kept turning over for the rest of the night to keep checking Jo was still lying next to me and that she was still breathing.
Needless to say I was anxious to get out of there the next day (when it finally came!), though we did stay long enough for a brief breakfast and some pictures for posterity's sake.

The Bedouin camp where we "slept", the red arrow denotes our "room".






Bedouin Camp 360 Panorama
After departing the camp, out of the locked gates, the morning brought stillness, quiet beauty and the chance for a clean slate and new adventure ahead...












Disclaimer: Please note the Bedouin are very friendly and hospitable people and the afore mentioned events and feelings of uneasiness were entirely of my own imagination.

Day 2 in Jordan
Today was all about Petra, Petra, Petra...I think this may have secretly (or not so secretly) been Jo's favourite day/place of the ENTIRE trip.

Fingertip facts: Petra is an archaeological site in Arabah, Aqaba Governorate, Jordan, lying on the slope of Mount Hor in a basin among the mountains which form the eastern flank of Arabah (Wadi Araba), the large valley running from the Dead Sea to the Gulf of Aqaba. It is renowned for its rock-cut architecture. The site remained unknown to the Western world until 1812, when it was discovered by Swiss explorer Johann Ludwig Burckhardt. It was famously described as "a rose-red city half as old as time" in a Newdigate prize-winning sonnet by John William Burgon. UNESCO has described it as "one of the most precious cultural properties of man's cultural heritage."
Rekem is an ancient name for Petra and appears in Dead Sea scrolls associated with Mount Seir. Additionally, Eusebius and Jerome assert that Rekem was the native name of Petra, supposedly on the authority of Josephus, Pliny the Elder and other writers identify Petra as the capital of the Nabataeans, Aramaic-speaking Semites, and the centre of their caravan trade. Enclosed by towering rocks and watered by a perennial stream, Petra not only possessed the advantages of a fortress but controlled the main commercial routes which passed through it to Gaza in the west, to Bosra and Damascus in the north, to Aqaba and Leuce Come on the Red Sea, and across the desert to the Persian Gulf.

It was the ability of the Nabataeans to control the water supply that led to the rise of the desert city, in effect creating an artificial oasis. The area is visited by flash floods and archaeological evidence demonstrates the Nabataeans controlled these floods by the use of dams, cisterns and water conduits. These innovations stored water for prolonged periods of drought, and enabled the city to prosper from its sale.
Although in ancient times Petra might have been approached from the south (via Saudi Arabia on a track leading around Jabal Haroun, Aaron's Mountain, on across the plain of Petra), or possibly from the high plateau to the north, most modern visitors approach the ancient site from the east. The impressive eastern entrance leads steeply down through a dark, narrow gorge (in places only 3–4 metres wide) called the Siq ("the shaft"), a natural geological feature formed from a deep split in the sandstone rocks and serving as a waterway flowing into Wadi Musa. At the end of the narrow gorge stands Petra's most elaborate ruin, Al Khazneh ("the Treasury"), hewn into the sandstone cliff.

I won't spoil it with too many more words, but needless to say, it was amazing. I especially loved the places where the sun had yet to bleach the beautiful colours from the rocks.

I love watching other photographers at work...
























Our friends, the Tourist Police...






















This is the part where Jo got really excited...

...the first tantalising glimpse


































Pretty impressive...

...but you can't have Petra without camels now, can you?







Another 360 panorama from the top of the High Sacrificial Place

The climb up, and the amazing colours












Tombs, and more tombs












My Bedouin friend Eagle, showing us another tomb, and which hole was to be his grave (he was joking).
Eagle and his friend Tarek hire out their donkeys for rides up to the High Sacrificial Place or to the Monastary. We met them on the way back down from the HSP and they (and their donkeys, Whiskey & Michael Jackson) decided to keep us company for the rest of the day. I had quite a few interesting talks with Eagle about relationships, religion (that was a short one), the Bedouin, fake Bedouin (i.e. local farmers who make out they are Bedouin for tourism sake) vs real Bedouin (who sleep in caves out in the desert), about Petra, how many kids and wives his father has (12 and 4 respectively), what his future plans were, and our different and similar approaches and perspectives on life. He offered to let us camp out overnight with him and Tarek in the local desert, where they would show us how to make Bedouin BBQ chicken, and show us around the Bedouin village. Had we not just had the most unrestful night ever, I might have thought about taking him up on that offer. But two women alone in the desert with two guys we've only just met - hmmmm - no thanks. First of all I'm married (therefore it would just be inappropriate) and second, no matter how nice you seem and how often you say I'm like a sister to you, it's just not a good idea, no matter how much I might want a more authentic experience. Sorry Eagle, maybe next time (when I'll make sure to bring Andrew along).


The Monastary







More subtle colours and shaped walls in the Siq on the way out...






We were meant to be heading down to Wadi Rum for another Bedouin camp experience in the desert. However, going on our previous night's experience and despite Eagle's offer, we (perhaps) wisely decided to find a local hotel in which to spend the evening. And a glorious idea that was, because it included a shower (or two in my case) and a nice soft bed with clean sheets, a very very restful night, and the discovery of my new favourite drink - sweetened lemon juice blended with mint - so deliciously refreshing.

Day 3 in Jordan
Our last day in Jordan was aimed at getting back to Amman to drop off the rental car. We did have time for a second stop at the Movenpick Dead Sea for a little dip and relaxing, before getting back on our journey.
Once we'd dropped the car off, we were dropped at the (wrong) bus station, where we (with the help of the guy who dropped us off) tried to find a bus that would take us to Jerash/Ajloon and our next hotel for the night. We found a guy who offered to take us right to the hotel door, even though it wasn't part of his route. He would do this for us for 7JD each. Great, we said, and then clambered on board the bus, waiting for it to fill up with other passengers before it could leave. It was only after the bus got going, and everyone else was paying their fares that we realised we had been had. All the local passengers were paying 0.85JD each. Oh yeah, I was mad. You can bet I got off that bus without saying goodbye or thankyou! :)

It left something of a bitter taste from what had otherwise been a lovely day, and unfortunately it kind of soured the rest of my evening (I hate being taken advantage of just because I'm a tourist) and I wasn't able to appreciate the beauty of my new green surroundings in the North.

By morning I had recovered and was able to snap a few shots of the peaceful-looking landscape and preserve some good memories before we made a dash for the border and the next stop on our journey...


Next up...Israel!

Monday, April 28, 2008

April Inspiration for 2008

This months entry doesn't come from any one person, rather from a range of recent experiences, and one in particular that happened here in Egypt.

Jo and I were on our way to the Egyptian Museum, taking the Cairo metro (yes, I was surprised they had a metro too) from Maadi to Sadaat, and as we stood there in the women's carriage exchanging smiles with a local 12 year old girl (dressed normally) and her mother (in full Islamic hijab/burkha cover - showing only the eyes), when the little girl uttered a very shy but excited hello. We then started a very broken English/Arabic exchange as we made attempts to introduce ourselves and get to know each other. It was wonderfully clear that the mother was very proud of her daughter being able to speak English with these two foreign women.

Soon after we got chatting the train pulled into a station and everyone got off, the mother and daughter pulled us outside, motioning with gestures that the train was going no further and we would need to catch a train from the other side of the platform. So we waited there and chatted some more. We were waiting a long time, during which, one by one, a group of local teenage girls (all with headscarves covered their hair and neck completely but leaving the full face showing) joined the conversation, offered us a snack, and we introduced ourselves, and got talking. Granted this time it was mostly in English (seeing as my Arabic was limited to hello, goodbye, thankyou, the numbers 1-10, and a few not very helpful phrases) as we exchanged names, and they asked if we liked Egypt and where we were going. The also played us music from their mobile phones (Michael Buble and some other local musicians) and asked if we liked it. All in all they were incredibly lovely. And then the train came...

Wow, the women on the platform were near hysterical as they all tried to board the two carriages set aside for women traveling sans men (FYI: it's best not to travel in the men's /regular carriages unless you're with a man - trust me - unless you enjoy being leered at and harassed). Unfortunately(/fortunately?) we didn't make it on that train and so waited another 20-30 minutes for the next train, again chatting with the girls. By the time it came, we were firm friends, and they said they would miss us! Very sweet. During boarding hysteria part 2, they kindly loaded/pushed us onto the carriage, and we all settled into a semi-comfortable crammed-sardine-like mass of women's bodies, luckily it appeared everyone had put on deodorant that morning. The best part came with the unloading at our designated departure station where amidst kissing goodbye to our new friends in the traditional 4 kiss way, we were literally hauled/pushed/pulled off the train along with half of the other women stampeding for the door.

We made it out to tell the tale, and for me a chance to reflect on the role communication can play in bridging seemingly insurmountable gaps between different groups of people.

I will admit, I probably had some preconceived ideas about these women, because for the first time in my life I had felt like a scandalously dressed hussy in my short sleeved tshirt, and assumed that their stares were in condemnation of us foreigners dressed so exposingly. But that was before we got to know each other and before I realised that was not why they were staring. They were simply curious. They were interested to see what we were like, were we the same as them? What was our culture like? What we were interested in? Did we like the same music? Did we like to sing? Did we like their country? Did we like them? Jo told me later she had even felt some of the girls touch her (blonde) hair. I also had questions about them too, what were they like? What was it like to be a woman here? What were their family lives like? What were their hopes and dreams for the future? How did they feel about their headscarves, about the hijab? Did they miss being able to go uncovered like they did in childhood? Did they miss feeling the wind in their hair?

By the time we left the girls and the mother and her daughter, I felt so differently about the women in that country. They were lovely, they were very friendly, and they were lots of fun. Not that I hadn't expected that, but I had discovered a kinship with women who came from a completely different cultural background to me and it was wonderful.

Wonderful, because I saw up close and personal how differently (not to mention quickly) our perceptions of others can change and be enhanced when we simply start conversing with them. People we might otherwise be inclined to make judgments about or be lead by what others have said, without trying to find out and get to know them for ourselves.
Unfortunately I know these barriers exist between us and all kinds of people, not just between our different languages and cultures, but from different social backgrounds, colour, age, religion, fear, miscommunication, mistakes, tradition, and the list goes on. And sometimes I know we do nothing to break down these barriers, wrongly believing there is no common ground between us, there is nothing for us to say to each other, nothing to improve the way we think about each other.

Maybe that is true on rare occasions. We're probably all a little worried about bridging the gap between ourselves and someone who has absolutely no respect for values and other things we hold dear. Fortunately those people are not the majority. And I feel confident to say that the majority of people out there are just like us. And we can come to know that for ourselves, and as we do the windows of understanding, tolerance, and appreciation will open as we put forth a little communicative effort.
Furthermore, you can trust me when I say that being one half of a cross-cultural marriage gives me plenty of experience to talk about breaking down and bridging barriers :) Andrew and I have learned communication truly is the key. For as we talk and discuss and open ourselves up, we have only learned how to appreciate, understand, support and love each other more.

I think learning to understand and love those women in Cairo was one of the best parts of my trip to the Middle East, and certainly one I will remember with fondness for many years to come.

Sunday, April 27, 2008

Day 16 - Istanbul, Turkey

Finally a chance to get another post out as I approach the last week of my journey in this part of the world. I won't have a chance to get to days 2-15 until next month, so hang in there if you're all anticipation for finding out what we've been up to.

Right now though, I'm in Istanbul, (which according to Wikipedia is...) Europe's most populous city (the world's 4th largest city proper and 19th largest urban area) and Turkey's cultural and financial center. The city covers 27 districts of the Istanbul province. It is located on the Bosphorus Strait, and encompasses the natural harbor known as the Golden Horn, in the northwest of the country. It extends both on the European (Thrace) and on the Asian (Anatolia) side of the Bosphorus, and is thereby the only metropolis in the world which is situated on two continents. In its long history, Istanbul served as the capital city of the Roman Empire (330-395), the Byzantine Empire (395-1204 and 1261-1453), the Latin Empire (1204-1261), and the Ottoman Empire (1453-1922).

I have to admit despite the weather (overcast, windy, cold and a little rainy) a vast cry from the 30-40 c / 80-100 f dry and dusty of Egypt, I am really enjoying my time here. I'm also enjoying some one-on-one time with my Mum. She knows the city having been here several times before, so it's nice to be with someone who's familiar with the country and can lead the way :)
It's a different feel from the rest of the places we've visited (thankfully too, as I needed a bit of a break), and is definitely a city I would come back to again. It's a busy european city blessed with a constant fresh breeze care of the harbour, clean, plenty of ways to get around, friendly, great food options, fun markets, and plenty of lovely architectural heritage. I'll post pictures when I get home and have a chance to download and sort them.

In the meantime I'll leave you with this 1870's view of the city...a taster for you travel bugs out there!